{"id":983,"date":"2016-04-02T19:22:34","date_gmt":"2016-04-02T18:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/?p=983"},"modified":"2017-10-04T20:52:01","modified_gmt":"2017-10-04T19:52:01","slug":"jak-byt-stastny-a-nezblaznit-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/jak-byt-stastny-a-nezblaznit-se\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd a nezbl\u00e1znit se"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ka\u017ed\u00fd den na tu ot\u00e1zku nar\u00e1\u017e\u00edme. Ka\u017ed\u00fd den j\u00ed \u010dteme v\u00a0\u010dasopisech, vid\u00edme na televizn\u00edch obrazovk\u00e1ch a line se k\u00a0na\u0161im u\u0161\u00edm z\u00a0r\u00e1dia. Jak b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd?<\/p>\n \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd \u017eivot\n<h2><strong>Co je to vlastn\u011b \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u0160t\u011bst\u00ed jako takov\u00e9 je ur\u010dit\u00fd stav na\u0161\u00ed mysli. C\u00edt\u00edme se dob\u0159e, usm\u00edv\u00e1me se, v\u0161echno je fajn a nic n\u00e1m v\u00a0dan\u00fd okam\u017eik nechyb\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b naopak, nejrad\u011bji bychom se o ten kr\u00e1sn\u00fd, h\u0159ejiv\u00fd pocit s\u00a0n\u011bk\u00fdm rozd\u011blili, vyk\u0159i\u010deli do cel\u00e9ho sv\u011bta, co n\u00e1s u\u010dinilo tak nesm\u00edrn\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Bohu\u017eel, v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edce lid\u00ed tyto okam\u017eiky postr\u00e1d\u00e1 a za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 je m\u00e9n\u011b a m\u00e9n\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>O tom, jak a co d\u011blat, abychom byli \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed, u\u017e toho bylo hodn\u011b naps\u00e1no. Zkusme se tedy tentokr\u00e1t rad\u011bji zam\u011b\u0159it na to, co ned\u011blat. I tak to toti\u017e jde, je to jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed a nejlep\u0161\u00ed na tom je, \u017ee to opravdu funguje!<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nesrovn\u00e1vat<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u017divot nen\u00ed f\u00e9r, smi\u0159te se s\u00a0t\u00edm a p\u0159esta\u0148te se srovn\u00e1vat s\u00a0kolegyn\u00ed s perfektn\u00ed figurou, kter\u00e1 do sebe zrovna l\u00e1duje kus \u010dokol\u00e1dov\u00e9ho dortu a vy na ni mezit\u00edm z\u00edr\u00e1te s\u00a0pusou plnou r\u00fd\u017eov\u00e9ho ,,polystyr\u00e9nov\u00e9ho\u201c chleb\u00ed\u010dku. Va\u0161e drah\u00e1, \u0161t\u00edhl\u00e1 kolegyn\u011b V\u00e1m toti\u017e stejn\u011b tak m\u016f\u017ee zase z\u00e1vid\u011bt nap\u0159\u00edklad Va\u0161e dokonal\u00e9 vlasy. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1me n\u011bjak\u00e9 nedostatky. Dejte si ten kousek dortu taky a pak si jd\u011bte t\u0159eba zab\u011bhat.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nez\u00e1vid\u011bt<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Z\u00e1vist je jednou z\u00a0nejhor\u0161\u00edch ,,ru\u0161i\u010d\u016f\u201c \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. Je v\u0161ude, je naka\u017eliv\u00e1, t\u011b\u017eko se s\u00a0n\u00ed bojuje a nejv\u00edce ubli\u017euje n\u00e1m samotn\u00fdm. V\u017edy budete m\u00edt co z\u00e1vid\u011bt. U\u017e od d\u011btstv\u00ed z\u00e1vid\u00edme a v\u017edy se najdou dal\u0161\u00ed a dal\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvody k\u00a0z\u00e1visti. Bojujte s\u00a0n\u00ed, nebu\u010fte nep\u0159ej\u00edcn\u00ed a jestli-\u017ee opravdu chcete to, co maj\u00ed jin\u00ed, nez\u00e1vi\u010fte a tuto energii rad\u011bji vlo\u017ete do toho, abyste to z\u00edskali tak\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Neo\u010dek\u00e1vat<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Zamyslete se, kolikr\u00e1t jste v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b n\u011bco o\u010dek\u00e1vali, v\u011b\u0159ili jste v\u00a0to a nakonec to nep\u0159i\u0161lo? Jak jste se pak c\u00edtili? \u0160\u0165astn\u00ed jste rozhodn\u011b nebyli. Neo\u010dek\u00e1vejte od jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed a situac\u00ed, \u017ee ud\u011blaj\u00ed, nebo se stane to, co si p\u0159ejete. V\u011bt\u0161inou to tak nedopadne. Neup\u00ednejte se na vidinu nejlep\u0161\u00edho konce, ale m\u011bjte v\u00a0z\u00e1loze n\u011bjak\u00e9 dal\u0161\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. U\u0161et\u0159\u00edte si mnoho tr\u00e1pen\u00ed a sil.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nespol\u00e9hat se<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Nikdy se nespol\u00e9hejte na n\u011bkoho dal\u0161\u00edho. Jedin\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd V\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee opravdu pomoci a na kter\u00e9ho se m\u016f\u017eete opravdu spolehnout, jste pouze Vy. Uv\u011bdomte si svou s\u00edlu a v\u017edy se sna\u017ete b\u00fdt maxim\u00e1ln\u011b samostatnou jednotkou.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nesed\u011bt a ne\u010dekat<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Pokud nejste s\u00a0n\u011b\u010d\u00edm spokojen\u00ed a c\u00edt\u00edte, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00edte v\u00edc, jd\u011bte si za t\u00edm a n\u011bco pro to ud\u011blejte. T\u00edm, \u017ee si budete jen st\u011b\u017eovat a litovat se v\u00a0kout\u011b, nikdy ni\u010deho nedos\u00e1hnete. Zkuste se \u0159\u00eddit pravidlem \u2013 <em>v\u011b\u0159, b\u011b\u017e a dok\u00e1\u017ee\u0161<\/em> a uvid\u00edte, \u017ee se za\u010dnou d\u00edt v\u011bci. T\u0159eba ne hned, ale jisto jist\u011b za\u010dnou.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nep\u0159est\u00e1vat v\u011b\u0159it<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci prost\u011b pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed \u010das a je t\u0159eba si to uv\u011bdomit. Ty \u0161\u00edlen\u011b drah\u00e9 boty si nem\u016f\u017eete dovolit te\u010f, ale za p\u00e1r m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f, a\u017e si na n\u011b na\u0161et\u0159\u00edte, si je ur\u010dit\u011b budete moci koupit. Za noc taky nezhubnete a na b\u0159i\u0161e nebudete m\u00edt pek\u00e1\u010d buchet jen tak. V\u0161echno m\u00e1 sv\u016fj \u010das. Nezahazujte sv\u00e9 sny a touhy jen proto, \u017ee je nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt hned. To by byla opravdu \u0161koda.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nelitovat se<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>I kdy\u017e nem\u00e1te zrovna te\u010f to, co chcete, v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee jin\u00ed by za to, co m\u00e1te pr\u00e1v\u011b Vy, dali cokoliv. Pokud m\u00e1te co j\u00edst, kde bydlet, jste zdrav\u00ed, m\u00e1te pr\u00e1ci a p\u00e1r lid\u00ed kte\u0159\u00ed V\u00e1s maj\u00ed opravdu r\u00e1di, jste vlastn\u011b bohat\u00ed a m\u00e1te vyhr\u00e1no. M\u00e1te toti\u017e mo\u017enosti. A pokud n\u011bkterou z\u00a0t\u011bchto v\u011bc\u00ed nem\u00e1te, bojujte ze v\u0161ech sil, abyste ji z\u00edskali.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nevymlouvat se<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Nedok\u00e1\u017eu to, u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eu, jsem unaven\u00fd, ud\u011bl\u00e1m to a\u017e z\u00edtra.. Ruku na srdce, neud\u011bl\u00e1te to u\u017e nikdy. Nevymlouvejte se a za\u010dn\u011bte makat hned. Budete m\u00edt sami ze sebe radost a o to p\u0159ece p\u0159esn\u011b jde.<\/p>\n<p>Kl\u00ed\u010d ke \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed neexistuje. V\u017edy se najde n\u011bco, co n\u00e1m moment\u00e1ln\u011b bude ve \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed br\u00e1nit. Um\u011bn\u00ed je v\u0161ak tyto v\u011bci eliminovat a zbavit se jich co mo\u017en\u00e1 nejv\u00edce. Zkuste tedy zm\u011bnit sv\u016fj pohled na sv\u011bt a na \u017eivot. Nebav\u00ed V\u00e1s Va\u0161e pr\u00e1ce? Najd\u011bte si jinou. Rozpadl se V\u00e1m vztah? Ud\u011blejte maximum a pro jeho z\u00e1chranu a pokud to nevyjde, odejd\u011bte. Za\u010dn\u011bte prost\u011b znovu a l\u00e9pe.<\/p>\n<p>Posledn\u00ed, nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed rada na z\u00e1v\u011br zn\u00ed \u2013 <strong>nikomu se za sv\u016fj \u017eivot nemus\u00edte zodpov\u00eddat, pouze sami sob\u011b.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ka\u017ed\u00fd den na tu ot\u00e1zku nar\u00e1\u017e\u00edme. Ka\u017ed\u00fd den j\u00ed \u010dteme v\u00a0\u010dasopisech, vid\u00edme na televizn\u00edch obrazovk\u00e1ch a line se k\u00a0na\u0161im u\u0161\u00edm z\u00a0r\u00e1dia. Jak b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd? Co je to vlastn\u011b \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed? \u0160t\u011bst\u00ed jako takov\u00e9 je ur\u010dit\u00fd stav na\u0161\u00ed mysli. C\u00edt\u00edme se dob\u0159e, usm\u00edv\u00e1me se, v\u0161echno je fajn a nic n\u00e1m v\u00a0dan\u00fd okam\u017eik nechyb\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b naopak, nejrad\u011bji bychom [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":985,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[554],"tags":[359,357,358],"class_list":["post-983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-zpravy","tag-pohoda","tag-stesti","tag-zivot"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=983"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/983\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/metso.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}